FATHER’S DAY
by Anton Antonio
June 20, 2015
Every 3rd Sunday of June, we, Filipinos,
celebrate “Father’s Day”. To better understand
this American tradition and annual event, let’s check on the history and
rationale of “Father’s Day” (https://en.wikipedia.org/?title=Father%27s_Day):
“Father’s Day is a celebration honoring fathers and
celebrating fatherhood, paternal bonds, and the influence of fathers in
society. Many countries celebrate it on
the third Sunday of June, though it is also celebrated widely on other days by
many other countries.
HISTORY: Father’s Day
was inaugurated in the United States in the early 20th century to
complement Mother’s Day in celebrating fatherhood and male parenting.
FIRST OBSERVANCE:
Grace Golden Clayton may have been inspired by Anna Jarvis’ crusade to
establish Mother’s Day; two months prior, Jarvis had held a celebration for her
dead mother in Grafton, West Virginia, a town about 24 kilometers away from
Fairmont. After the success obtained by
Anna Jarvis with the promotion of Mother’s Day in Grafton, West Virginia, the
first observance of a “Father’s Day” was held on July 15, 1908, in Fairmont,
West Virginia, in the Williams Memorial Methodist Episcopal Church South, now
known as Central United Methodist Church.
Grace Golden Clayton was mourning the loss of her father when, on
December 1907, the Monongah Mining Disaster in nearby Monongah killed 361 men,
250 of them fathers, leaving around a thousand fatherless children. Clayton suggested her pastor Robert Thomas
Webb to honor all those fathers. Clayton’s
event did not have repercussions outside of Fairmont for several reasons, among
them: the city was overwhelmed by other events, the celebration was never
promoted outside of the town itself and no proclamation was made in the City
Council. Also two events overshadowed
this event: the celebration of Independence Day July 4, 1908, with 12,000
attendants and several shows including a hot air balloon event, which took over
the headlines in the following days, and the death of a 16-year-old girl on
July 4. The local church and Council
were overwhelmed and they did not even think of promoting the event, and it was
not celebrated again for many years. The
original sermon was not reproduced in press and it was lost. Finally, Clayton was a quiet person, who
never promoted the event or even talked to other persons about it.
ESTABLISHMENT OF A HOLIDAY:
In 1910, a Father’s Day celebration was held in Spokane, Washington, at
the YMCA by Sonora Smart Dodd, who was born in Arkansas. Its first celebration was in the Spokane YMCA
on June 19, 1910. Her father, the Civil
War veteran William Jackson Smart, was a single parent who raised his six
children there. After hearing a sermon
about Jarvis’ Mother’s Day in 1909 at Central Methodist Episcopal Church, she
told her pastor that fathers should have a similar holiday honoring them. Although she initially suggested June 5, her
father’s birthday, the pastors did not have enough time to prepare their
sermons, and the celebration was deferred to the third Sunday of June. Several local clergymen accepted the idea,
and on 19 June 1910, the first Father’s Day, “sermons honoring fathers were
presented throughout the city. However,
in the 1920s, Dodd stopped promoting the celebration because she was studying
in the Art Institute of Chicago, and it faded into relative obscurity again,
even in Spokane. In the 1930s, Dodd
returned to Spokane and started promoting the celebration again, raising
awareness at a national level. She had
the help of those trade groups that would benefit most from the holiday, for
example the manufacturers of ties, tobacco pipes, and any traditional present
to fathers. By 1938 she had the help of
the Father’s Day Council, founded by the New York Associated Men’s Wear
Retailers to consolidate and systematize the commercial promotion. Americans resisted the holiday for its first
few decades, viewing it as nothing more than an attempt by merchants to
replicate the commercial success of
Mother’s Day, and newspapers frequently features cynical and sarcastic attacks
and jokes. However, said merchants
remained resilient and even incorporated these attacks into their
advertisements. By the mid-1980s, the
Father’s Council wrote that “Father’s Day has become a Second Christmas for all
the men’s gift-oriented industries”. A
bill to accord national recognition of the holiday was introduced in Congress
in 1913. In 1916, President Woodrow
Wilson went to Spokane to speak in a Father’s Day celebration and wanted to
make it official, but Congress resisted, fearing that it would become
commercialized. US President Calvin
Coolidge recommended in 1924 that the day be observed by the nation, but
stopped short of issuing a national proclamation. Two earlier attempts to formally recognize the
holiday had been defeated by Congress.
In 1957, Maine Senator Margaret Chase Smith wrote a proposal accusing
Congress of ignoring fathers for 40 years while honoring mothers, thus
“singling out just one of our two parents”.
In 1966, President Lyndon B. Johnson issued the first presidential
proclamation honoring fathers, designating the third Sunday in June as Father’s
Day. Six years later, the day was made a
permanent national holiday when President Richard Nixon signed it into law in
1972. In addition to Father’s Day,
International Men’s Day is celebrated in many countries on November 19, for men
and boys who are not fathers.
SPELLING: In the
United States, Dodd used the “Fathers’ Day” spelling on her original petition
for the holiday, but the spelling “Father’s Day” was already used in 1913 when
the bill was introduced to the U.S. Congress as the first attempt to establish
the holiday, and it was still spelled the same way when its creator was
commended in 2008 by the U.S. Congress.”
Clearly, Father’s Day is an American holiday and
tradition. But why is this
Methodist-initiated tradition such a big hit in a predominantly Catholic
Philippines? Perhaps, the answer to this
question is rooted on the extremely close (and oftentimes extended) family ties
of the Filipino. Perhaps, if the
Americans did not promote it, the Filipinos will. So… to all of us Pinoy fathers, “Happy
Father’s Day!”
Just my
little thoughts…
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